I’ve realized that everyone has been so concerned with teaching men to roll with women that no one has ever thought to teach women how to roll with men. It’s incredible. ...So you come to class and everyday you are the last person picked to rep instruction. You feel like no one wants you, or you’re a burden to the team. Maybe you feel like if you left no one would even notice...Wow, stop right there!
Jiu Jitsu is a unique sport and a singular culture. Most people who are in this sport are in it for life. That being said there are many motivations behind the choice to get on the mats. For those serious competitors, the three-a-day type of people, however, there is only one reason: to make it to the top.